Hello- I am planning to make the coconut cake (pg 23 of RHC) for my husband’s birthday this weekend. I cannot find real coconut extract in any store in my local area. What I found was imitation coconut extract, which I did not buy, and “coconut (type) flavoring”- w/ all natural flavors- which I did buy. I restrained myself from opening up the little bottle and smelling it to see if it even resembled coconut! My first question is, should I use the “coconut flavoring” at all, or just skip that ingredient? And if I do use it, should I measure it the same as if it were extract? It is used in both the cake and the silk meringue buttercream. I also could not find frozen coconut. Mu second question is…can I substitute packaged sweetened flaked coconut? Thanks in advance for the help.